“The sadness is overwhelming, but I know I am strong” – Jessie J talks about a miscarriage

English singer-songwriter Jessie J announced in an emotional social media post on Wednesday that she had a baby on the way but lost it on Tuesday afternoon when she was told after her third scan that there was no heartbeat.

Jessie, whose show “The Hotel Cafe” was scheduled for Wednesday night, shared how she decided to have a baby alone because it’s all she ever wanted and life is short.

“Getting pregnant was in itself a miracle and an experience that I will never forget and that I will live again.”

‘She wrote.

She described what she was dealing with as the loneliest feeling in the world. However, she feels connected to women around the world who have felt this pain and much worse.

According to Jessie J:

Yesterday morning I laughed with a friend who said, “But seriously, how am I going to get through my gig in LA tomorrow night without telling the whole audience that I’m pregnant?”

Yesterday afternoon I was scared of the thought of getting through the gig without collapsing …

After I did my 3rd scan and was told there was no heartbeat

This morning. I feel like I have no control over my emotions. I regret posting this. I must not. I don’t really know.

What I know is that I wanna sing tonight Not because I am avoiding the grief or the trial, but because I know that singing will help me tonight.

I’ve done 2 shows in 2 years and my soul needs it. Today even more. I know some people will think they should just cancel. But at that moment I have clarity on one thing. I started singing at a young age out of joy, to fill my soul and self-love therapy, that has never changed and I have to deal with it my way.

I want to be honest and true and not hide what I feel. I deserve this. I want to be myself right now as I can be. Not just for the audience, but for me and my little baby who did it best.

I know myself and I know I would talk about it on stage because that’s me. So instead of a tearful emotional speech trying to explain my energy. That feels safer.

I decided to have a baby on my own. Because that’s all I ever wanted and life is short. Getting pregnant was a miracle in itself and an experience I will never forget and know I will do it all over again.

I’m still in shock, the sadness is overwhelming.
But I know that I am strong and I know that I will be fine.

I also know that millions of women all over the world have felt this pain and much worse. I feel connected to those I know and those I don’t know. 🫂

It’s the loneliest feeling in the world.

So I’ll see you in LA tonight
I like to joke less, but my heart will be in the room.


The singer, who started singing at a young age to sing “Joy to Fill My Soul and Self-Love Therapy” sang her heart when she appeared on her show for 2 hours, where she talked more about her experience .

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Photo credit: @Jessie J

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